Is it ideal? No. Has this community lost perspective and become rather cynical and self-serving? I think so.
Remember this: We are here to have fun, not accumulate imaginary stuff and get sad when it gets wiped, or sunk. I suggest having a clean slate upon wipe in your head as well as your inventory, docks, and money chest. Just get in your brig, hoist the sails, and go on an adventure. Maybe even minimize chat for a few days. :P.